Written by Abby Chee
People often ask how I manage my career with all the travel, responsibilities, and long hours—while still caring for my family and staying rooted in faith. The truth is simple: on my own, I couldn’t. But with God, I learned to keep choosing what matters most.
When I was younger, my faith was vibrant and steady. I read Scripture passionately, shared the gospel boldly, and grew up surrounded by Christian friends who supported me spiritually. But as adulthood came—university, a demanding career, global responsibilities—my focus slowly shifted. Work became intense and overwhelming. I often lived in a cycle where even sleep didn’t feel restful. Slowly, without intending to, I drifted.
Then life shook me awake. My father passed suddenly, and I grieved deeply for conversations we never had. My mum struggled emotionally, and I became the one holding the family together. It was during that season of heavy responsibility that God gently pulled me back to Him—reminding me that I didn’t have to carry everything alone.
Our search for a spiritual home eventually led us to the Church of Christ in Kota Kemuning. From the start, this congregation embraced my family with sincerity. Brethren cared for my mum, my husband—though not a Christian—was welcomed and included by the badminton group, and my son grew under the guidance and love of the youth and young adults. Through these relationships, God quietly restored parts of me that exhaustion had worn thin.
Over the years, my career continued to grow—faster and larger than I expected. Today, my job requires me to travel almost 20 times a year, crossing time zones, regions, and continents. I travel to places I never imagined myself visiting, some dangerous, some far from home, and every trip comes with its own weight of responsibility. I endure long hours, back-to-back commitments, and moments of silent fear—especially on turbulent flights or when walking unfamiliar streets in faraway countries.
But in every journey, I feel God with me.
There have been flights where turbulence shook the aircraft for long stretches, and all I could do was close my eyes and pray. There were trips where I quietly feared for my safety. Yet through all of it, God lifted the fear from my heart and replaced it with a peace I could not explain. I often imagine God watching over me wherever I am.
“He will command His angels concerning you, to guard you in all your ways.” (Psalm 91:11)
Despite the heavy travel and demanding work, God has also blessed me with a supportive family who adjusts with me—my husband in his own quiet way, and my son who has grown into a strong, grounded youth. While I plan my son’s schedules and juggle responsibilities, I realize more and more that I need to give them more of my presence, not just my planning. I am trying now, intentionally, to return more time and attention to my family—because God is showing me that love is spelled T-I-M-E.
Through all these years, one lesson remains clear:
Life will always be busy, but choosing God is what steadies the soul.
Scripture teaches us,
“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
and I have truly experienced this in the church community. I have stumbled, struggled, succeeded, and grown—but never alone. God has walked with me through every chaotic season—steadying my heart, guiding my steps, and reminding me that His presence is my greatest blessing.
My hope for everyone reading this is simple:
Your walk with God does not have to be perfect. It just needs to be persistent.
Even in your busiest, most overwhelmed seasons, He is never far. Return to Him whenever you can—even if all you can offer is a tired prayer. He will always meet you where you are.
Memory Verse of the Week
“My presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.”
— Exodus 33:14
Reflection Prompt
Where in your daily routines—at home, at work, or during moments of stress—can you pause to consciously invite God’s presence this week?