Written by Nathanael Goh
As I look back on my ninth year as a Christian, I found myself reflecting on what truly sustains our walk with God. It seemed only fitting to write about the key traits that help us remain steadfast in the faith.
Through my observations and interactions with mature brethren – such as leaders in the congregation and long-standing members – I’ve noticed a few common traits.
These traits have also served as my personal guide, helping me stay spiritually grounded. I’ve witnessed firsthand the positive impact of those who embody these qualities, contributing to the growth of the church. On the other hand, I’ve also seen how lacking these traits can cause harm, hindering both personal growth and negatively impacting the broader community.
Let’s explore these three essential traits that can guide us toward a more active and faithful walk: discernment, humility, and initiative.
1. Discernment: Exercising Righteous Judgment
Discernment goes beyond simply distinguishing between good and evil – it involves applying righteous judgment in complex situations. It’s an active process that requires constant exposure to God’s Word, as Jesus reminds us in Matthew 4:4: “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” The ability to discern right from wrong is fundamentally about seeking God’s perspective on issues, whether in our personal lives or in our relationship with others.
The Bible, therefore, is our ultimate guide in refining discernment, equipping us to make choices that honour God and align us with His will as mentioned in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 “All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work.”
In today’s world, where values often conflict with biblical teachings, it’s crucial for Christians to remain deeply rooted in the scriptures. This foundation helps us make decisions that honour God, resist temptation, speak truth with love, and stand firm in faith, even when it’s challenging.
However, exercising righteous judgment also requires humility – recognising that our vision is limited and that we must depend on God’s Word for direction (Psalm 119:105). Only then can we be sure our decisions align with His will.
2. Humility: The Heart of a Teachable Spirit
Humility is the cornerstone of Christian character, perfectly modelled by Christ, who demonstrated true humility in Philippians 2:5–7 through His selflessness and service. It’s more than just an outward behaviour – it’s about cultivating a Christlike mindset.
One of the clearest ways that humility takes shape is in our willingness to examine our own ways. Walking faithfully means being open to correction and reflection. Proverbs 18:17 reminds us that it’s easy to believe our way is right or sometimes even the only way. But such thinking can harden our hearts and close our minds. Over time, we become like the old saying goes: “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” When we stop allowing our thoughts to be challenged, we lose the ability to see where we’ve gone wrong. This tendency isn’t limited by age, it is something that we all struggle with at times.
This is why humility is not just desirable – it’s essential. A humble heart remains teachable and willing to learn, even when it’s uncomfortable. It keeps us grounded, reminding us that true growth doesn’t come from pride in what we know but from love that builds others up as 1 Corinthians 8:1 reminds us, “Knowledge puffs up, but love edifies.” When we approach our faith with humility, we become more receptive to learning, correction, and spiritual growth.
Still, humility doesn’t mean accepting every view without discernment. Discernment remains vital. Every opinion may be worth hearing, but not all are worth following. Proverbs 19:20 teaches us to seek wise counsel. When we surround ourselves with those rooted in Scripture and faithful in their walk with God, it becomes easier to grow in both humility and wisdom – a mindset that will guard us from many troubles as we mature in faith.
Humility also extends beyond our relationship with God to how we relate to others. It involves empathy – understanding the struggles and pain of others without being judgmental or forceful. We’re not called to impose our opinions but to serve with gentleness and walk alongside others in their journeys. True humility doesn’t avoid difficult conversations but engages them with grace and understanding, listening before speaking as Proverbs 18:13 cautions us.
True humility isn’t passive, it prepares our hearts for action. When we learn to listen, reflect, and grow, we naturally become more aware of the needs around us. A humble spirit doesn’t wait to be asked; it looks for ways to serve. That’s where our faith comes alive not only in what we know or feel, but in how we take initiative to serve God and others with love.
3. Self-Starters: Actively Seeking Opportunities to Serve
Being a self-starter in the Kingdom of God means taking initiative rather than waiting to be prompted. Instead of sitting back and hoping someone else will step in, Christians are called to proactively seek out opportunities to serve – using the unique gifts and talents God has entrusted to us.
As Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12:20, “There are many members, yet one body.” Just as a body function best when all its parts work together, the church thrives when each member uses their gifts to serve one another, as mentioned in 1 Peter 4:10. Every Christian has something valuable to contribute to the life and health of the congregation.
If you’ve visited the last page of our weekly newsletter, you may have noticed a form inviting members to register their interest in various serving opportunities within the congregation. Whether you’re experienced or just beginning your journey, there’s a place for you to serve, learn, and grow.
Self-starters are driven by a desire to glorify God through action. Whether it’s volunteering in church, helping a neighbour in need, or offering encouragement to someone struggling, every act of service matters. This proactive attitude honours God and strengthens the body of Christ, creating a community where the love of Jesus is both seen and felt by others.
Conclusion
Discernment, humility, and initiative are not just abstract qualities – they are practical traits that empower Christians to live out their faith in a way that honours God and reflects His love. Let us strive to live lives marked by righteous judgment, humble hearts, and a spirit of initiative, eager to serve and glorify God in all that we do (Colossians 3:17).